have had alot goin thru my head recently....
like, lots to blog about...
dunno which topic to pick
n oso....shudnt be doin this...:(
i'll try this one 1st, coz its simple n short. [EDIT: hahaha, Hey! It Started out short okay...:) I din noe that my frens 'story' wud have such a great effect on me! =)]
Im chatin wit a guy fren now who asked me why girls can change their mood so easily...
He said, he made a little mistake n his gf can ignore him for 4 days (hey, i din noe he had a gf!!! =) )
So i asked him about it...
He said that all that happened was that he got disconnected...den she got mad at him...
so i digged deeper...
apparently, he got disconnected...den he went back online....45 minutes later...
:0
~Why 45 minutes later??
-I got dc, den i was too lazy....
Ta daaaa....
Aint it Obvious?!?!
And i was like, Aiyaa...so simple ma...
But still he can ask me "Ha???"
~U were 'too lazy'! Ofcourse shes mad la!
-Huh? I was too lazy...so???
Hai....is it All guys?! Or jus this particular one?!?!
I mean....i basically knew tat guys were dumb! (hahaha)
Ok ok fine, i mean more like, in relationships, or rather, dealing with the opposite sex...
Aint it obvious?!?!
He was "TOO LAZY" to go online to chat with her...
DUH! Ofcourse shes mad!
how can ur boyfriend be 'too lazy' to chat with u?!?!
Ok Guys: Basic tip!
This is how girls think, and wat they want ok?
If u are their boyfren, obviously u need to care for them...
u need to care for them enough to....do WANT to do...everything....
call them, sms them, hold them, hug them, think about them, miss them.....EVERYTHING....
its really hard to say....
This is why....
Girl: Hrmphhh!!! *turns back on guy*
Guy: Wats wrong?
Girl: HRMPPHHHFF!!!!
Guy: Are u mad at me? Wat did i do wrong???
Girl: If u Dont Know, Im Not gonna tell u!!!
hahaha. ;)
I noe, i noe...its dumb....but still.....tats wat u love about us rite? hahaha jk...
U see, we dun wan u to call us because we Tell u to...
we want u to call because u missed us, and thought about us, n basically WANTED to call... :)
Its not as simple as, 'if u want me to call, jus tell me. I wont mind. if u want me to call, ill call...'
U cant just "Not Mind"
Its not good enough....U need to WANT!
but den again....whether a person 'Wants' something or not, cannot be controlled, can it?
If u loved her....u'd want to call...
If u loved her enough...the right way....
Den there wont be this problem.
Wat im saying is tat, most of the time, this problem exists because this 2 ppl are not truly in love....not really meant for each other...
A couple should be comfortable enough that both parties call each other, in a system that is right for themselves....
As in, if it jus so happens that this couple both feel that they should call each other (about) equal no. of times...and they both do just tat, den everyone is happy.
If the guy naturally Wants to call the girl 24/7 n shes perfectly happy with that, then That is their system...
Like that...
As in the case sorta mentioned above, the girl should be comfortable enough in the relationship to Understand the guy...as in, understand tat not calling doesnt mean he doesnt care (if tats wat it is, im not talkin about my friend here, bcoz as i later found out, he didnt care....more on this later...), its jus His way, n him being Him.
N maybe the guy should understand wat the girl wants n feel happy to make Her happy.....
Something like that....
It has been proven in Chemistry (which is ofcourse an essential element in a relationship!)
Guy + Love <=======> Girl + Love
If the Girl loves the guy more than equilibrium will allow, according to Le Chatelier's Principle, equilibrium position will shift left to produce more of Guy's Love.
N if the guy loves the girl more than equilibrium...., according to Le Chatelier's Principle, equilibrium position will then shift right to produce more of Girl's Love.
However, if the Guy (in case 1), has too high an activation energy, and is unable to react to produce the desired amount of love, equilibrium cannot be reached, and then, the Girl + Love (reactant), will react completely to form the Guy's Love (product), until it (the reactant) is spent......
N vice versa...
Im not a chem expert though....may those better than me comment on this... :)
Its long and complicated....I could go on forever....But its basically the same thing.
Love.
N well...fate.
The right one...
I crap so much about chem i forgot what else it was that i had to say....
Oh well, back to my friend then....
He went on to complain to me about the girl, and in 2 secs i could see that the relationship was doomed...
sorry to say....
But it was SO obvious!
He doesnt love her!
He went on about what she does/did n how it was making him miserable...
He asked whether all girls were like tat, and if not, he should find a new girl...
(Hello?!?!?! Should u even be Thinking this seeing as she is ur GF n its supposed to be a pre-requisite that u Love her??!)
N more on how he feels bored when hes with her n blahblahblah...
u get the picture right?
N den more truth came out...
~Why did u start with her in the 1st place?
- err...because she liked me first?
(WTF?!?!?! Cant u SEE that that is SO not right??!?!)
n apparently they broke up....n they r currently back together because
in his own words, she wanted him back...
???
But den....he says its because she has been depressed, n he was thinking about her exams....
he feels responsible....n doesnt noe wat wud happen to her shud he break up with her....
Aikz....i dun even noe where to begin....thinking i mean....
as u might noe from several of my previous blogs....i have a million thoughts on this...relationship stuff...
hai.....
oh ya, another thing.....
even as i say that a relationship is not right if it isnt.....at equilibrium, well like i have also expressed before, its not neccessarily impossible to work out right?
i mean....i dunno, but im sure almost every single couple has this problem.....otherwise life would be perfect..
N yet, relationships do work out.....
And yet again, i dun think married couples have this problem though, of caring n not caring...
which would den strenghten my conclusion that couples with this problem wont work out...
ARGH!!!
I shall Stop thinking now!!!
As the wise people say, Thinking Kills!
I'd really appreciate ur thoughts on this....(no not about Killer thoughts! About this relationship dilemma thingy!!!)
Better go off now....
Im miserable by the way...
This has been a bad week...
Both my problems that are constantly haunting me, were bent on ruining me this week...
And then theres the added hassle of the darn exam which is burning my brains....
I havent even finish wat i shud have done yesterday! WAt more today!!! N yet im online!!
(N why did i come online in the 1st place?!?! HIM tats why!!! GRRRRR)
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