on this, all hollows eve...the world is twisted and sick...

Surfing around...

came across this

Which lead to this, this, and also... this...

its about:

Student gives birth in dormitory

ALOR STAR: A student of Universiti Utara Malaysia is believed to have given birth to a baby girl at one of the university’s residential colleges on Friday.

The 23-year-old student had apparently left the infant with its umbilical cord still attached in a box in her room and had gone to the Alor Star hospital to seek treatment.

Police said the infant was healthy when found and was sent to the Jitra hospital.

~The Comments on the 3rd link were particularly disturbing and infuriating...n a million other feelings!
I CANNOT BELIEVE PEOPLE CAN BE TAT STUPID N DUMB N JUDGEMENTAL N IRRITATING N BASICALLY, well,
H-U-M-A-N...

Just so we're clear, im not talkin about the girl...
Mostly the male idiots who keep saying that it was her fault n hows she dumb n not mature enough n all that...

M-E-N!!!

Lets not forget that the girl was human... Humans cannot be either smart or dumb, mature or immature, right or wrong... We are just human.. We cant own a certain characteristic 100%, all the way..

ugh...

I'll just let u read n think wat u wish to think.

Luckily for me i wasn't signed in at that particular site and so could not comment...
I dunno how much time n energy i would have wasted being pissed at those idiots...

ugh...

gotta go do laundry n study...

to those who read this, let us pray..
pray for the girl, the baby, our society, the world....
let us all just pray for a better tomorrow...

hmm...

Shakespeare In Love - Layla Kaylif

Mmmm...Shakespeare In Love...
Its playing rite now on TV3...
He is dam Hot! N shes Dam gorgeous Wei! =D

Love scenes must be avoided if u are in love! hahaha... Too romantic! =p
Shud be watched on a hearth rug, by the fireplace...if u wish for stuff to happen..
*Evil Laugh!*

Mmm! Love this song...I'll add the MP3 when i ask about how to put it up! hehe

Shakespeare In Love

Layla Kaylif

He's fought and he's fallen
He's on his knees before he's on his feet
A sinister romantic
Oh, he's about to be and she's about to see

Teachin' torches to burn bright
She's hanging on the cheek of night
A snowy dove trooping with crows
He never saw true beauty till tonight

CHORUS:
She'll take him to the brink of deliverance
Show him that much
Oh, don't you know it
Oh, don't you know it
So he falls in love to feel that he's falling
She'll let him know his heart
Oh, don't you know it
Oh, don't you know it
That's Shakespeare in love

He's fought and he's fallen
He's on his knees before he's on his feet
A glittery romantic
Oh, he's about to be and she's about to see

His bounty's boundless like the sea
His love is endless, just as deep
The more he gives the more he has
`Cause both of them are truly infinite

CHORUS:
She'll take him to the brink of deliverance
Show him that much
Oh, don't you know it
Oh, don't you know it
So he falls in love to feel that he's falling
She'll let him know his heart
Oh, don't you know it
Oh, don't you know it
That's Shakespeare in love

That's Shakespeare in love

A sinister romantic
He's on his knees before he's on his feet

CHORUS:
She'll take him to the brink of deliverance
Show him that much
Oh, don't you know it
Oh, don't you know it
So he falls in love to feel that he's falling
She'll let him know his heart
Oh, don't you know it
Oh, don't you know it
That's Shakespeare in love

That's Shakespeare in love

Me no Speekedeh Inggelisie

Seeing as to how pOokPoOk needs some intelectually-stimulating-stimuli
N how Im such a great generous friend n all...

Got this thing in the mail.
Pretty cool. =)
Eventhough id rather have my other posts up as the newest ones to invite some comments, that doesnt seem to be happening, so i guess i'll put This up.

A post thats not about Him wud do some good. *grins*

English is a stupid language

There is no egg in the eggplant, no ham in the hamburger and neither pine,
nor apple in the pineapple. English muffins were not invented in England,
French fries were not invented in France. We sometimes take English for
granted. But if we examine its paradoxes we find that Quicksand takes you
down slowly, boxing rings are square and a guinea pig is neither from Guinea
nor is it a pig. If writers write, how come fingers don't fing. If the
plural of tooth is teeth, shouldn't the plural of phone booth be phone
beeth. If the teacher taught, why didn't the preacher praught. If a
vegetarian eats vegetables, what the heck does a humanitarian eat!? a good
one, really! Why do people recite at a play yet play at a recital? Park on
driveways and drive on parkways. You have to marvel at the unique lunacy of
a language where a house can burn up as it burns down and in which you fill
in a form by filling it out. And a bell is only heard once it goes! English
was invented by people, not computers, and it reflects the creativity of the
human race (which of course isn't a race at all). That is why when the stars
are out they are visible, but when the lights are out they are invisible.
And why it is that when I wind up my watch it starts but when I wind up this
story it ends? And some more food for "Thought". Do infants enjoy infancy as
much as adults enjoy adultery? If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?
Why is the man who invests all your money called a broker? Why is a person
who plays the piano called a pianist, but a person who drives a race car not
called a racist? Why are a wise man and a wise guy opposites? Why do
overlook and oversee mean opposite things? If horrific means to make
horrible, does terrific mean to make terrible? Why isn't 11 pronounced onety
one? If lawyers are disbarred and clergymen defrocked, doesn't it follow
that electricians can be delighted, musicians denoted, cowboys deranged,
models deposed, tree surgeons debarked and dry cleaners depressed? Why is it
that if someone tells you that there are 1 billion stars in the universe you
will believe them, but if they tell you a wall has wet paint you will have
to touch it to be sure? If you take an Oriental person and spin him around
several times, does he become disoriented? If people from Poland are called
"Poles", why aren't people from Holland called "Holes?" And shouldn't the
offspring of Hungarian Polish parents be
a Hungry Pole?

*grins*
The part about the recital n the play was good. :)
Well i thought most of the whole thing was.
...hmm...

NEways, i hope this post by no means deters people from commenting in the last few... =p

~Allyssa~

My First

Missed my blog entries?!
U jus miss me talking bout U dun u! :p
Useless jerk.

Isnt it bad enough that i SO havent been studying...?
N u so noe why... =P
n i shud stop sayin so coz its so really bimbo-like =D

i dunno...
all i wanna talk about wud be us...
sorta
But alot of it is private isnt it?
hai...

well, how about updates for them?
(Hey Liny! :) Thnx for dropping by! I know ure really busy n stressed out there! Chill ok?! *hugs* )

We broke up...
hahahahahahaha
Well we did.
on Sunday.
When were we together again?
Hahahaha....
long story...

But the things is, after we 'broke up'...I felt so So much more for u...More then beFore we 'broke up'...

So that was Sunday...
N with how things were goin, how we were feeling..., i thought they were kinda perfect...
But then Monday came...
The 1st day i actually studied btw. Haha...more or less la...
Until the last 5 minutes...
screwed us up... :)

N they have No idea wat im saying...
Does it matter?
Im too lazy to bother (sorry guys..)
Too lazy to even bother about my exams....
My actual AS exams...
...

The tables have twisted n turned too much... :p
since i last blogged...
wats tat? 9 days? :/
hmm...

Well lets say...alot of those last few posts no longer apply...
~Like how i cant picture myself with him?!
HAH! Long gone down the drains! *grins*!
~N how i dont know how he feels?
Well, i guess i do now...
I felt ur heart dear......unless it WAS just the hormones! =P
~About the girl?
Well.....its sorta settled...i hope... :P
See? Im still selfish...
~N also how stongly i felt? ....
*sigh*...u noe my prob...*sighs*...

Well, I'll tell u wat I DO noe...
I have feelings for u...
I think of u when my eyes open (not neccessarily 'wake up' hehe)
I miss ur messages
I miss u
I wanna be with u
I wanna talk to u
I wanna be in ur arms
I love touching u (err....Sick twisted Minds!!! Not THERE!)
I dont mind u touching me...(err....I DONT have to explain it to u guys! :P)

There might be a million reasons to these things...besides the apparently obvious One..
Lets hear some of them eh?
U can ALL tell me wat u think...
Im too lazy to think...

sorry...not now k...too many thoughts...

Hmm...Boston Public repeat. See i getta watch. :)
Hrmmm...Seen it before though...
on Singapore tv...

Collide is playing as usual...
It makes me sad sometimes u noe...a little...
love the song...
it pulls out my emotions...
something like tat...
Let make it our song? Whether we will be together or not it doesnt matter...
lets make Collide our song...
Ure gonna have to dance with me to it some day... *smiles*

Out of the doubt that fills my mind
I finally find, U n I Collide...

hmmm

I cant think when its playing btw...

I think i had quite some stuff to say...
but as usual i think too much n now ive forgotten...

Shouldn't a relationship build up on time? Even if you love this guy - take the time to get to know him.. you've prolly only seen 1 side of him.
How about that hmm?
Yea...
Lets wait now k...
Lets take some sort of a break...take our time...
We probably have plenty...
I Dun mean from each other...i cud never do that...
Lets do what we feel like doing, what we want to do...With boundaries n limits in mind of course...
As in...we can spend time together...id love that...but lets cut out all the other stuff hmm?

Oh btw, I was right!
ALOT of things did happen n develop in 2 months...
Heck it took 2 weeks! (or less than tat! haha!)

I've never felt for a guy the way i feel for u...
I've never done or wud have allowed any of the things that happened between us, to happen with any other guy....in my life so far....
I've never shared so much with anyone....
ok well, not so much, not the amount of it (after all ive only known u for 2 weeks!), but the extent of the sharing...
Nobody in this world knows what u noe about me...
I've actually made myself vulnerable around you by doing the things i do with u....telling u the things i tell u...
N yet, u are ultimately (so far) the one that is at risk.....
Maybe we both have.....Maybe we're both playerz.....
N yet, (seeing as to how things are going) im probably the better player! (Not to mention kisser! hahaha)

u noe, i was probably (definitely) right about the feelings thingy...
How how we feel affects how we feel...hahaha

Shall we give ourselves some time?
Some time to figure things out.
Some time to learn, to feel, to fall...

Shall we give this a chance?
Selfishly, if u dun have anywhere else to go.....Stay....
Selfishly, if u do.......*sigh*.....i dont wanna think about that now...

Its 12.45pm
I cant believe ure not awake yet!!!
Jerk!
N i cant believe u did not reply my msg!!!!
My last msg was just frikin scary ok!!!
It was still buggin me somewhere deep inside my mind when my mum came online!!
Sub-consciousness n consciousness got errr unconscious?
mised up n forgot wat actually did happen n wat was jus in my dream...

Anyways....i shud go now....
SpenT my morning writing this!
I hope ure Happy! =P
Why d'ya even bother anyways?
Shudn't u be studying?!
Shudn't we all?!?! *grins*

OK...goin off now...

~bye~

NOTE: Hey guys...Hmmm maybe i didnt express myself properly. :p That 'break up' that i talked about...It was just un-officialising things...coz i freaked out on him after we became 'official'. We didnt actually fight n not talk to each other or anything...Like i said...i felt more for him then...Its jus tat...well stuff happened on Monday...
Anyways, yea...we're sorta taking a break...slowing down things...we still spend time together (or plan to) shudnt have rushed into things...its only been 2 weeks...We're not over yet...

N Shaf, if we ever were to not be together...in a relationship, or watever...u are still special to me...N always will be...I hope that we'll be...jus as we are...or something like tat...
U mean alot to me...U always will...
After all, IM the one with the good track record with the exes! *grins*
love u...
Might not be the kind of love that u feel for me, or wish that i felt for u...
not yet
but i ...care for u...
*Hugs*

u lose ur appetite.......wen u fall for someone :D

U cant get with her unless u stop missing n falling for me like this...
Ure gonna hurt her again.
N ure gonna be hurt bcoz u hurted her...
N den im gonna be hurt coz i caused u to hurt her n hence get hurt! hahaha
im not gonna let u hurt someone bcoz of me...

i noe ure not gonna stop caring...but tats the prob...

U cant be missing me n flirting with me wen ure with someone else...
U cant care for me the way u do now if u get with someone else...
Cant, as in, u shudnt...
Its not fair...

N yet i wont have u forget about me...
Jus as i refuse to not have u around if im with another...

But i dont want u to pick Me...yet...
coz im not sure i can give u wat u deserve to get...wat u might get with her...

I dunno if i love him...though recently ive wanted to say it So Much!
I jus noe i more than like him...yes, i feel so much for u too. :p

we need to stop flirting!!!
I Hate U! :p

I cant believe i can feel so so much for u...n yet not be able to get with u...
I dont want to give u up!
I dont want to stop loving u like this...
I dont noe wat id do...

I've gotten it out...the word love...
If i say it...dun think i really really mean it until i tell u tat i do, Ok?

There are signs to me, that we cant be together...
I cant see myself with u...
even though u can...i dont...
N i feel uncomfortable wen u tell me wat u see...
Y do i feel uncomfortable??

if i cant see myself with u, how can i be with u?

i worry...
I worry tat i feel so strongly, because u feel so strongly too...
n tat i wudnt have if u didnt...n werent so good to me...because u feel for me...

wat does it mean if u miss someone every second of every day...
Every second that ure not together?
Its aint gotta be love...
Wat is love?
Izzy!! Wat is love?!
What is it if it isnt love?

Wat does it mean if u keep thinking about someone?
Keep thinking how much u feel for that someone...
No no, not I Love U.........more like I Hate U! :p though, its pretty much the same! :p
It still aint love...

you're rite...i dont love u...not yet...
haha but i cant stand it wen im not with u! :p
I hate u! U terrible jerk! :p
Ugh! How am I going to concentrate?!?! How am I going to study?!?!
U noe those dumb elders who say we shouldnt fall in love while we're studyin, coz itd affect our studies?!
Well HERE! Im not in love! But im Just as Affected!!!
Ass! ;)

hahaha...welcome to the 5th day of this twisted tale! :p

Hey Sarah! :) If ure wondering how come i never told u...well...its because this only started after i last wrote u... :P
its so terrible...
N to think i wrote about relationships in my last reply! :p
Leave me a msg k? *grins*

oh yeah...haha
Ive not been having any appetite for the past 2 days!
I didnt eat anything at all on Fri.
Not a single bite...
N i still had no appetite at night...
Even the slice of cake i had...was at midnite on saturday. hehe
N i didnt have any appetite today either!
Ugh....im hungry! But i just cant eat!!!
WHY?!
~he says its coz u lose ur appetite wen u fall for someone
tats dumb! haha :p

...

I Hate U!

I Hate U I Hate U I Hate U!!!

How can u fall for me wen u have her on your mind?!?!

Im So sorry for bringing her up...
But u love her...
N ure still trying to get her back!

Its not fair to her...
N its not fair to me...

but den again...no dun leave...im not giving u up...

Im So sorry for doing this to u again n again...
i wanna say i love u...but i dunno if i do...yet...

The only reason ure with me now...is coz u havent gotten her back yet...
No...i noe u care...i do...but u cudnt be doing all these things with me if u were with her, cud u...

im not gonna make u pick...
coz im not gonna lose u...
not tat theres anything to pick...u love her not me.
hah...

n i cant, because im not sure i cud b with u even if there wasnt a her...

ure gonna make me cry!
haha...
Im sorry babe...sorry im messing u up like this...

please dun be sad...
haha...stupid request, i noe...

i hate u...

This one's for u... =)

[Most of this was originally directed to the general public, yes. :) but den...certain sections were directed to one person...If u dun get it...it wasnt meant for u to get...Sorry. This ones dedicated to...u. :)]

Morning! =) (to U! :) leave me a msg, or 2, or more! :D )

:p

3 days...
Does that sound like a long time to u?!
No.
U wake up on Monday, quickly pass through it....Tuesday.....n before u noe it, its Wednesday!!!
Tats 3 days.....
Gone....Over....Never to come back....

But den....alot can happen in 3 days....

College started on the 7th of January. Wednesday.
After the end of sec school, my Best friend then shud ofcourse still be my best friend on the 7th...
Ok fine, so Wednesday...
We were placed in different classes...
things happened...dun wanna say...
Anyways...by Friday nite, i cried.
Desperately...
Knowing tat it was gonna be over...
It took jus 3 days for something to happen, that i cud tell something was wrong....
Anyways, i was rite.

3 days.
N ur heart can be broken.

Den recently, *grins*

3 days, n u can fall in love...

haha OK OK fine. Not in love! :)
Hows fall for someone? =) *grins*

I hardly knew Him (yes! Theres a new Him in town! haha ) before this week...
Infact, he was only sure of my name like...a few weeks ago....
Den last week...tuition... ;)
N only this Monday did i actually get his phone no...n him mine....
N Monday it was that it started....
Monday tat he starts msgin me....n msgin n msgin...
n msgin n msgin n msgin!!!
Monday nite....tues(well actually tues dun have la! haha)...wed....n Thurs....
N on Thurs he tells me he has a crush on me! (Yes yes I noe! TINY crush! Bah!)
N i tell him tat i like him too....

cause, as amazing as it sounds....it took us 3 days.....(i noe we were saying 4, but if u count, mon nite to thurs nite is 3 days! haha)

aih....but it was also then that my problems started....(yes! new guys new probs! Ugh!)

Aih...ya....i think this was wat this was supposed to be about...

Anyways....how come???
I dunno....
He was jus real sweet...
N he was the one who kept msgin....
bcoz...yea...if he had not...we wudnt be here today...coz i wudnt have msged...
I mean...tats wat im like...
Im always scared of buggin ppl...
Id usually expect the other person to be wanting me to stop...n get lost...
neways....he was the one who jus kept msgin...n askin me questions...
Eventhough i probably gave him chances to stop the conversation...
like, jus answerin his questions n no more...
but no, he went on!

Why ah? :)
Feel comfortable?!?! But tat was like the 1st time we 'talked' la...how to feel any comfort?!?!
I dun get....

Hes too sweet...
Ure too sweet...
N yes, why shud i believe u?!
The boy who cried wolf?
No wait....let me explain to them...
He....he has a sweet...err mouth? tongue? hahaha....
Hes always saying something sweet...
but like....before this week....like last fri, tuition time...n like this mon, at BK....?
All those things u sed??
U didnt like me then....so u were jus fooling around...like u sed....even i dun believe wat u say, rmmbr?
Well....ure saying the same things now...
wats the diff?
wat makes u mean them now wen u didnt mean them back then???

i trust people...
i believe wat they say...
I believe wat ppl say...

n if they wish to play me, n they're good with words....

i get played...

well....ya.
Coz if ppl tell me something...i believe them...
anything...
So all u have to do is tell them to me a few times....
den id start to think about it....
so if u wanted to play me...itd be all too easy...

dun u think itd be a problem if ure too sweet n make me fall for u??
haha...i jus wrote tat to u.....

n well....jus working it out with me wont settle the problem...id still, well...hurt...

but, nvrmnd...forget bout tat. :)
Im jus being paranoid...

yes i care about u...
yes i do like u...
n yes, haha i have a crush on u... hahaha

i dun think i'll fall for u...
either tat or ive already fallen for u...

No i dun believe wat u say...
No i still dun believe wat u say...
N no, i dun think i look better with glasses! ;)

Why is it tat 'we'll never work out' again?! (See?! U said Never!)
haha...yah...id get too jealous n upset!!!

yes...it is another crush...
but den again....its different....
different from the last one...

I think im gonna stop...

Haha...u noe wat?
I'm like a kid around u... *grins*
which is a good thing. hehe.
Tats y u get to call me kiddo! ;)

Oh MAN! U made me All School-Girly n Mushy n Gross!!!
I Hate U!

Oh n just so u guys noe,
NO we arent in love.
NO we arent together.
N well, dun think we'll be...

He has a girl in mind by the way...dun they all...

I cant believe i wrote all that crap for u!!!
U sure as hell better not be playing with me!
See?! I can speculate about that n yet not protect myself by doing something like this...

No...i dun trust u...(I do n yet i dunt...)
How can u care for someone like that n yet not want them ultimately??
[Add on: Do u noe why i refuse to believe ure really not playing me...? Because, after u told me on Thursday...I started believing what u say...more. I cant believe u mean all u say...Coz u cant!.....tats why...]

... ... ...
Good nite.
Im gonna misscall u... :)

N Elly: Dont puke n dun pee! :) I bet u wished u hadnt 'Made' me tell u tat day! Heh!

playerz

I think im being played...

Im scared.

I am.

well maybe im not being played....but im scared tat i might be...

i trust people...
i believe wat they say...
I believe wat ppl say...

n if they wish to play me, n they're good with words....

i get played...

I HATE not being able to trust!!!
I HATE this Dread im feeling in my heart!

I dun wanna be played!

i want to cry...

cry n forget it all...

lalalallalalalaallalalalalalaalalaaaa... ;)

Hello!!!

Eh! U guys are SO bad la!!!
hahahahaha

Along with my family!
Hmrph! Not a SINGLE one of them.....Hmmmm

hahaha.....if ure blur, well ure meant to be!

I'll elaborate some other time!

Bad bad ppl! :p

haha

Nite nite!!!

lalalalalalalalalalalalalaala....

The Reason

'Somebody' msged, wanting to borrow some cash from me.
note the qoute marks..

So i said ok. Remind me.

N she did.
She msged, 'Hey gul sory but jus wanted to remind u bout the money i wil try to give u bck in a few days time. Thanks'

U noe what that says?

It says that we are not friends.
Tats what it says...

Life is supposed to be difficult.....i guess.

Actually I dun really wanna create a new blog so soon...
Liked the last one...
But since im here n all...got something to say in the nex blog...

First off:
Its not really very interesting, but its true...hope some of it will get to some ppl, n let them learn.
Might save a heart from being broken...

EASY ....... DIFFICULT
>
>
>
> Easy is to get a place in someone's
address book.
> Difficult is to get a place in someone's
heart.
>
> Easy is to judge the mistakes of
others
> Difficult is to recognize our own
mistakes
>
> Easy is to talk without thinking
> Difficult is to refrain the tongue
>
> Easy is to hurt someone who loves
us.
> Difficult is to heal the wound...
>
> Easy is to forgive others
> Difficult is to ask for forgiveness
>
> Easy is to set rules.
> Difficult is to follow them...
>
> Easy is to dream every night.
> Difficult is to fight for a dream...
>
> Easy is to show victory.
> Difficult is to assume defeat with
dignity...
>
> Easy is to admire a full moon.
> Difficult to see the other side...
>
> Easy is to stumble with a stone.
> Difficult is to get up...
>
> Easy is to enjoy life every day.
> Difficult is to give it real value...
>
> Easy is to promise something to
someone.
> Difficult is to fulfill that promise...
>
> Easy is to say we love.
> Difficult is to show it every day...
>
> Easy is to criticize others.
> Difficult is to improve oneself...
>
> Easy is to make mistakes.
> Difficult is to learn from them...
>
> Easy is to weep for a lost love.
> Difficult is to take care of it so as not to
lose it.
>
> Easy is to think about improving.
> Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into
action...
>
> Easy is to think bad of others
> Difficult is to give them the benefit of the
doubt...
>
> Easy is to receive
> Difficult is to give
>
> Easy is to read this
> Difficult is to follow it
>
> Easy is to keep a friendship with
words
> Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

---

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into
action...

True. As is proven by Me being Here right now!!! (Read: Not studying!)
In fact! Did nothing today. Came back from coll, slept, was woken up b4 6. Had to send brother off at airport!
Just came back. Gonna catch Boston Public soon...
...I dun understand me either...

Easy is to hurt someone who loves
us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Jus wanna high-light that. (Im sensitive again tonite...)
My wound is not healing. Especially since the party who wounded me hasnt really gotten it yet, N wont set out to heal it...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Or maybe it has healed somewat...but the scar is there...
Somebody, Teach me to forgive n forget, n move on!

Easy is to promise something to
someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Kindly make a point to watch what u promise...
And when u do promise, try Very hard to keep it...
THINK n see how much it means n how important it is to the other party before u just brush it off..
inform early if u have to break ur promise...
N nex time, dun promise again..!

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Ppl always ask u to look in their eyes wen u say 'i love u' to see if u mean it.
I dun think ill have any problems passing that test...
is it really hard?
dunno....
DUNT say I love u unless u mean it.
Why lie?
Why lie?
Why lie???
...people hurt u noe... is it fun to hurt??
Dont lie!

No time for relationshipsmelationships! I HAVE NOT STUDIED!!!

have had alot goin thru my head recently....
like, lots to blog about...
dunno which topic to pick
n oso....shudnt be doin this...:(

i'll try this one 1st, coz its simple n short. [EDIT: hahaha, Hey! It Started out short okay...:) I din noe that my frens 'story' wud have such a great effect on me! =)]

Im chatin wit a guy fren now who asked me why girls can change their mood so easily...
He said, he made a little mistake n his gf can ignore him for 4 days (hey, i din noe he had a gf!!! =) )
So i asked him about it...
He said that all that happened was that he got disconnected...den she got mad at him...

so i digged deeper...
apparently, he got disconnected...den he went back online....45 minutes later...
:0
~Why 45 minutes later??
-I got dc, den i was too lazy....

Ta daaaa....
Aint it Obvious?!?!
And i was like, Aiyaa...so simple ma...
But still he can ask me "Ha???"

~U were 'too lazy'! Ofcourse shes mad la!
-Huh? I was too lazy...so???

Hai....is it All guys?! Or jus this particular one?!?!
I mean....i basically knew tat guys were dumb! (hahaha)
Ok ok fine, i mean more like, in relationships, or rather, dealing with the opposite sex...

Aint it obvious?!?!
He was "TOO LAZY" to go online to chat with her...
DUH! Ofcourse shes mad!
how can ur boyfriend be 'too lazy' to chat with u?!?!

Ok Guys: Basic tip!
This is how girls think, and wat they want ok?
If u are their boyfren, obviously u need to care for them...
u need to care for them enough to....do WANT to do...everything....
call them, sms them, hold them, hug them, think about them, miss them.....EVERYTHING....
its really hard to say....

This is why....
Girl: Hrmphhh!!! *turns back on guy*
Guy: Wats wrong?
Girl: HRMPPHHHFF!!!!
Guy: Are u mad at me? Wat did i do wrong???
Girl: If u Dont Know, Im Not gonna tell u!!!

hahaha. ;)
I noe, i noe...its dumb....but still.....tats wat u love about us rite? hahaha jk...

U see, we dun wan u to call us because we Tell u to...
we want u to call because u missed us, and thought about us, n basically WANTED to call... :)
Its not as simple as, 'if u want me to call, jus tell me. I wont mind. if u want me to call, ill call...'
U cant just "Not Mind"
Its not good enough....U need to WANT!

but den again....whether a person 'Wants' something or not, cannot be controlled, can it?

If u loved her....u'd want to call...
If u loved her enough...the right way....
Den there wont be this problem.

Wat im saying is tat, most of the time, this problem exists because this 2 ppl are not truly in love....not really meant for each other...

A couple should be comfortable enough that both parties call each other, in a system that is right for themselves....
As in, if it jus so happens that this couple both feel that they should call each other (about) equal no. of times...and they both do just tat, den everyone is happy.
If the guy naturally Wants to call the girl 24/7 n shes perfectly happy with that, then That is their system...
Like that...

As in the case sorta mentioned above, the girl should be comfortable enough in the relationship to Understand the guy...as in, understand tat not calling doesnt mean he doesnt care (if tats wat it is, im not talkin about my friend here, bcoz as i later found out, he didnt care....more on this later...), its jus His way, n him being Him.
N maybe the guy should understand wat the girl wants n feel happy to make Her happy.....
Something like that....

It has been proven in Chemistry (which is ofcourse an essential element in a relationship!)

Guy + Love <=======> Girl + Love
If the Girl loves the guy more than equilibrium will allow, according to Le Chatelier's Principle, equilibrium position will shift left to produce more of Guy's Love.
N if the guy loves the girl more than equilibrium...., according to Le Chatelier's Principle, equilibrium position will then shift right to produce more of Girl's Love.

However, if the Guy (in case 1), has too high an activation energy, and is unable to react to produce the desired amount of love, equilibrium cannot be reached, and then, the Girl + Love (reactant), will react completely to form the Guy's Love (product), until it (the reactant) is spent......
N vice versa...

Im not a chem expert though....may those better than me comment on this... :)

Its long and complicated....I could go on forever....But its basically the same thing.
Love.
N well...fate.
The right one...

I crap so much about chem i forgot what else it was that i had to say....

Oh well, back to my friend then....
He went on to complain to me about the girl, and in 2 secs i could see that the relationship was doomed...
sorry to say....
But it was SO obvious!
He doesnt love her!
He went on about what she does/did n how it was making him miserable...
He asked whether all girls were like tat, and if not, he should find a new girl...
(Hello?!?!?! Should u even be Thinking this seeing as she is ur GF n its supposed to be a pre-requisite that u Love her??!)
N more on how he feels bored when hes with her n blahblahblah...
u get the picture right?

N den more truth came out...
~Why did u start with her in the 1st place?
- err...because she liked me first?
(WTF?!?!?! Cant u SEE that that is SO not right??!?!)
n apparently they broke up....n they r currently back together because
in his own words, she wanted him back...
???

But den....he says its because she has been depressed, n he was thinking about her exams....
he feels responsible....n doesnt noe wat wud happen to her shud he break up with her....

Aikz....i dun even noe where to begin....thinking i mean....
as u might noe from several of my previous blogs....i have a million thoughts on this...relationship stuff...

hai.....

oh ya, another thing.....
even as i say that a relationship is not right if it isnt.....at equilibrium, well like i have also expressed before, its not neccessarily impossible to work out right?
i mean....i dunno, but im sure almost every single couple has this problem.....otherwise life would be perfect..
N yet, relationships do work out.....
And yet again, i dun think married couples have this problem though, of caring n not caring...
which would den strenghten my conclusion that couples with this problem wont work out...

ARGH!!!
I shall Stop thinking now!!!
As the wise people say, Thinking Kills!

I'd really appreciate ur thoughts on this....(no not about Killer thoughts! About this relationship dilemma thingy!!!)


Better go off now....
Im miserable by the way...
This has been a bad week...
Both my problems that are constantly haunting me, were bent on ruining me this week...
And then theres the added hassle of the darn exam which is burning my brains....
I havent even finish wat i shud have done yesterday! WAt more today!!! N yet im online!!
(N why did i come online in the 1st place?!?! HIM tats why!!! GRRRRR)